GUYS are
1) selfish
a) they can’t decide what they want after breaking up. when you have decided to move on, they would think of you out of the blue and give you a msg, which leads to she being emo.
b) they would say all the nicest things on earth to make you feel wanted and then, out the sudden, you became thrash that they MUST dispose in order to ‘move on’
c) they always want to be that someone who benefits from the relationship. because most of the time, they want to ‘receive’ more than they want to ‘give’.
d) they like NEW ‘excitement’. Please note that my ‘excitement’ here refers to their new found interest – new GIRLS
e) a guy can have an affair with another girl, nothing happens and noone will say anything. but when a girl have an affair with another guy, someone would say she’s a bitch or maybe worse – a slut
2) self centered
a) they only have their own interest to consider
b) they only want to have their own fun
c) once they got themselves a gf, everything except gf matters.
3) egoistic
ego and pride comes together. they are best friends. with pride and ego, even they made a mistake they will never admit. normally they will wait for the girl to make the first move. even if they do admit, they only did it for the sake of doing it when their friend come telling him “you are so fucking wrong”.
4) prideful
5) shameless
they don’t know how to spell the word S H A M E. because they have the mentality that no matter how they hurt the girl, the girl would go back to them. reason being? because the girl love him. in this case, the girl is always the foolish one. for the sake of the ‘love one’, they would sacrifice for the unnecessary. and of cos, some of the girls are “playboy” too. in whatever situation. the girl tends to lose out more. what does a guy lose? Money? Time? Pride? Ego? Virginity? Pregnant? when they want u back, they have no pride and ego. but once they got you back, everything came back or maybe worse. Please remember that when they are courting you, they will come out with all tricks to please you. BUT once you and him got together, their true colors come out. and of cos, i can’t condemn all guys just because of my recent failure which is entirely NOT my fault. i can only blame myself for being a fool. there are good guys around too. i can only regret for not choosing guys who are nice to me. and i always ended up with jerks. and the most recent one, is worse than a beast. if only i know the truth earlier, then i could have prevent everything that happened from happening. what has done is already done. i can only make sure it doesn’t happen again.
so when the next time, you choose a guy. OPEN your eyes BIG. make sure you have chose the correct one. because there is no such thing as regret or if only i know it earlier. everything would have been too late. there is no rush for a couple to go into a relationship because of impulsion. it will only cause more conflicts. Be the smart the next time. twice is enough.
