Childish Act

Who in the world say that women is the pettiest mankind on earth? I tell YOU ARE WRONG!

There is no right nor wrong in this context.

I have to blame on myself thinking that that person would help me do a proper website. It’s not a lot to ask for actually, I just ask for a change in the layout of the website because it’s really ugly and not really what I wanted. Then he say, “pay money to me to change the whole layout or buy the template I help you install.. but I will NOT change any of the layout because it’s a lot of work to do”. Then he say, “when I say it’s a lot of work, it means really a lot.” Understand. So, I say it’s ok, then I will  think of another alternative since he’s refusing to help me change the layout. Nothing wrong right? After all, I am trying to put 100% effort to make sure everything goes well. Nothing wrong again right?

So I told him, why not I pay you and you help me do, he say that would cost me $800 (just to change the whole layout) or I can buy the template (which cost about USD150) and he would help me install. After discussion, I decided to be against that idea, so I msg him and told him I will think of alternative. He replied, “OK.”. So the chapter was closed for the day. Until next day a friend of mine came to me and told me about a posting he put up “Do not ask for more if someone is doing a favour for you”, and of course his friends would add more things to it by say “Yes, I agreed!“, “Yah, totally disgusting“, “I support you!!“, all sort of rubbish. So I commented, “Den don’t help”, and I realized that he actually deleted me from FB, Twitter and wherever you can think of.

Disappointed I may be, but this has been a common thing happening between the both of us. And to a certain point of time, this is becoming irritating.

You mean when you are pissed with someone, you can just delete him/her away and when you’re happy or noone bothers about you then you add him/her back so he/she can entertain you? Life doesn’t work this way at all. I think this is the XX times he has been deleteing me, blocking me, and whatever. I think this is it already. Cannot stand such behaviour anymore. I don’t think I deserved to be treated this way. Not when we are together. Not after we broke up. I don’t see why you should treat me differently from those of your friends. You should at least have the BASIC respect for me if you want me to continue to respect you.

I think I need some anger management already. I am really bothered by this. But then I told myself, I will never be bothered by such things again. Childish.