Right right right… That Alicia Tan did replied my email after all.. but that was the SINCEREST email that I ever read in my entire life. In case you don’t know what is going on, you can always refer to my previous post.
What do you think about her email?
don’t bother to talk to me. I am not in the mood. Thanks.
This week starts really badly. First, I am feeling sick so I went to the doctor and get a MC. Then yesterday during lunch time, I was informed by Celest that someone posted MY PICTURES on her blog. It caught me off guard, and I was really shocked to hear that. So she gave me the link and asked me if I know this person. I view that person’s blog on my iPhone. While I was reading through the blog, I saw my pictures, the one I am holding Magnum Gold ice cream. Slowly, I saw 2 ROM pictures of me and my husby. The last photo I saw was the one with me, Rebecca and Celest.
I ain’t famous people and I seriously think that cyber attack won’t happen to me. But, reading this person’s blog really scares me. And of course, it also tells me how stupid one can be.
The person’s blog is, ALICIA’S BLOG owned by this person named Alicia Tan. Oh please, don’t start asking me do I know this person. I am 100% sure that..
If you are Jaymee Tan, and you read her blog. You will start to feel uneasy, just like me.
Let me get this ‘story’ flowing. In case the screen shots you see here are too small for you to read.
This Alicia Tan was describing how people would photoshop her picture and post it up in sggirls.com and one of the photos that she found out from a friend, happened to have her head ‘doctored’ on a nudity photo. Oh well, some times, you don’t have to be a MODEL in order to have your photos doctored and posted on such websites. Some bored people just likes to do such things.
And then the best part of her blog was, she was informed by another friend of hers, Sam, that someone was using her photo while HE WAS CHATTING WITH HER THROUGH MSN. And since her friend, Sam, knew that the person he’s speaking to is NOT her so he decides to inform her. And this “Jaymee Tan” replied her friend, Sam, by saying “It’s better not to disclose my real identity online“. So how the hell did Alicia Tan managed to google and found ‘Jaymee Tan’ blog*** (the blog was actually referring to MY poor blog)? And is 100% sure that it is the correct impersonator that she is looking for? And since her friend knows who is impersonating her, why didn’t they report to the authority? So that they can take action against her or something instead of posting up such a blog entry 3 months later.
***It doesn’t make any sense if someone impersonate her in Facebook, but creates a blog and post her REAL photos.
A few months later on a Saturday(or so what she claims), some friends of her asked her if this was her ‘sister’, ‘herself’ or a ‘faker’. Apparently this “Jaymee Tan’ bo liao TTM, she created a Facebook account, uploaded this Alicia Tan’s pictures and maybe to the certain extend stalked on her in her blog (since Alicia Tan claimed that she doesn’t update her Facebook regularly). And behaves as if she’s Alicia Tan.
So, this smart alex googled “Jaymee Tan”, found my blog, save a few of my pictures, spend her time reading my blog and upload MY pictures into HER blog without my permission. And with the intention to insult me as if I was the impersonator. So she commented on my looks.
She even put remark “Shall we add “Bitch” to the list of adjectives to describe her?” (BTW, this beautiful description is in my police report (below)). She was trying to be sympathetic towards how I look.
What I don’t understand was,
WHAT’S WRONG WITH SHARING ACCOMMODATION WITH MY HUSBY FOR A HOLIDAY?
If my husby is stingy, he won’t offer paying for the air tickets. What do you know about my husby? You know nothing about him. So what you claimed you have a handsome boyfriend? I have a loving husby who I can depend on, who loves me from the bottom of his heart. We feels how each other feels. He gives me his attention, always be there for me if possible, always buy me little things to make me happy and with all these little actions from him, I feel so love. He never forgets to give me the hugs and kisses before we sleep. And this is how we love each other. 🙂
Do you know that, by paying for a gf’s accommodation doesn’t not necessary make the bf a good guy. The bf can pay for the gf’s accommodation, brings her to holiday but doesn’t give her his attention, doesn’t give her hugs and kisses very often or even make her feel loved by him. And by sharing accommodation, it doesn’t mean he’s stingy. Both of us are working, so why not? Do you know that he’s giving his riches to me little by little, day by day. What do you know about OUR love? You know nothing, and you commented so much on this. Shame on you.
As a plain Jane, i never think that I have a perfect set of teeth. I know I have crooked sets of teeth. But, who is perfect in this world? Pretty girl with bad temper, proud of themselves, just because they are pretty? And I don’t even want to comment on how you look. Everyone have their eyes to see and be the judge. I know I doesn’t have big boobs, neither am I very pretty (don’t you know what is BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER ?) nor do I study in famous school. I know my ang moh (English) is not that good. At least I won’t anyhow accuse someone of something that one did not do. I have a wide smile, which some people would told me “Jaymee, you have a nice smile”. I DO NOT NEED A SET OF STRAIGHT TEETH to have NICE SMILES. It’s from within. Tell you so much, you also won’t understand.
I was friendly enough, because I don’t see the need to blow this things up, so I dropped her an email to clarify things.
I waited the whole day for her reply. And till now, no reply from her. I was so distress about this matter yesterday because the entry was still there, so I posted on my Facebook. And I got so many supportive friends and family members! I am soooooooooooooooo touched! Really, without everyone’s encouragement I think I will just emo one corner and don’t know what to do. And everyone who knows me personally, will knows I like to,
1) Camwhore with my friends
2) Take pictures of Chou Chou, pets and other soft toys
3) Just bought a DSLR, Canon 60D, last month. This means I can take even more chio pictures and post it on my Facebook and share with everyone so that they can comment on my photography skills so I can improve myself.
My friends can vouch for me. And I really cannot find a reason why I should impersonate her. It’s not like she’s some kind of ‘Superstar” and mind you, I do not even chase after “superstar” neither do I follow their news. Or super talented. WHY SHOULD I IMPERSONATE A 19/20 YEARS OLD LITTLE GIRL? Almost everyone (including my sisters and parents) encouraged me to make a police report against such misuse of my photos and horrible and untruth information about me.
And I did. My little sister and brother accompanied me to the police station. While I was in the police station reporting this case, I was told that she removed my pictures and some comments. So I went to view her post and saw that she removed my pictures. But, I was very disturbed about it because she did not delete the “As usual, I went to google & found her blog… read some of her entries (she’s married!), but didn’t do anything.”
To me, this is NOT AN APOLOGY. That’s for sure. What does she meant by “if she’s not the culprit?” So it means, she is still doubting whether I am the culprit? Even my friends says it’s not an apology. And I totally agree with PeiWei that I am so unlucky to have such things happening to me.
Next, we will analyze on this MSN chat history. We will start from the date. It was dated back in 07.10.2010. So, her friend, Sam, told her about this person since OCT LAST YEAR. If you read this MSN conversation CLOSELY and CLEARLY, apparently this “Jaymee Tan” was a friend of Sam’s friend. Something that I don’t really understand was, WHY DO YOU NEED TO GO TO THE EXTEND OF GOOGLING ‘JAYMEETAN@LIVE.COM’ ONLINE WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A DIRECT CONTACT YOU CAN APPROACH?
Do you know when you typed “jaymeetan@live.com”, they will remove ‘.’ and ‘@’ then it will search based on “jaymeetan’, ‘live’ and ‘com’. And since my name is JAYMEE TAN, of course your search results will see me. So, I can assumed that she has been reading my blog since OCT LAST YEAR? Can I say that she has been stalking on me? And, may I ask WHICH part of my blog did I mentioned about Alicia Tan or Sam or going clubbing with him and his friends? Everyone knows I am busying with my assignments and exams. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO busy until now that I can fork out some time to write about this whole stupid matter that is affecting ME, MY HUSBY and my FRIENDS. I think anyone who has eyes to see, knows that it’s impossible that I am the one impersonating you. I am not so sure if she has opened her eyes big enough to see when she’s searching on “Jaymee Tan”. So QUIT acting smart will ya? What makes you think you are a good investigator? Sorry, but you are nowhere near.
And I think she hasn’t been reading news lately. All of us know about “Gary Ng” and his 507 sex videos adventure that was exposed last year. Guess what? His real name is Chen Guilin. So in what way was “Gary Ng” linked to Chen Guilin? Or does it comes into anyone’s mind that “Gary Ng” = “Chen Guilin”? Can I google “Gary Ng” and accuse any “Gary Ng” who I came across and say he’s the Singapore version of “Edison Chen”? BTW, I have 2 Gary Ng in my Facebook. (I am sorry if I used you guys as an example. It meant no harm!) Can I just assumed that any “Gary Ng” I come across is him if the media did not expose his pictures? No what? The media will have to do a thorough investigation and make sure they got the correct “Gary Ng” and expose him and his evil deeds. This is common sense. If you want to catch a thief, you must first have evidence. You have NO evidence and then you accused me of being the impersonator? Holy molly! Do you know that people with evil intention does NOT USE THEIR REAL NAME? So, do you think that someone who impersonated you will use their real name in the cyber world? If you think once is not enough, then think as MANY as you wish!
Anyways, I was so happy because I have got so many people backing me up on this rubbished post. Little things makes me happy girl. That doesn’t make me stupid or silly. I am just easily contended.
And in order to let you know the SERIOUSNESS of this matter, I have reported to the authority. It has been classified under “Intentional Harassment”. Any funny things from you, I will definitely charge you. Just in case you are living in your OWN WORLD, I have hard copy of the blog post (before it was amended) handed to the police.
In case you don’t know, to me ALL OF MY FRIENDS ARE HANDSOME AND PRETTY (HUNKS AND BABEs). Do not judge a book by its cover, otherwise the person who will fall terribly WILL BE YOU.
Last but not least, it seems like you did this to quite a bit of people. And mind you, if you step on my tail again, I will report you to YOUR SCHOOL. It’s not a threaten. Remember.
And seriously, I have nothing against you if you have not dragged me in and make me someone’s scapegoat. But, technology outsmart you.
Showing everyone my Facebook! I have Facebook since when? Poly days? So, stop living in your own world as if I die die must ‘impersonate’ you. Do you think that I impersonate you or my Chou Chou did? I love my FRIENDS and FAMILY. But, you don’t deserve any attention from us anymore. I wish I could say the B word. But, I aint like you! 😀
Some thing that I never thought would happen to me, happened to me today.
Someone accusing me for impersonating her. Right. IMPERSONATE SOMEONE in Facebook.
How? By creating a Facebook account under MY name, and whatever pictures I post is HER pictures.
And I must be very hardworking because I have to keep myself updated with her blog entries so I can save the pictures she uploaded in the blog and post it up in ‘my’ account.
Sounds damn bo liao.
I have better things to do. I have assignment datelines to rush, exams to study for.
Do I look like I will forsake my assignment and exams to impersonate someone like her?
Yeah, the person you see from this link is the person who accused me of something that I did not do.
And her apology?
“Here I have to apologise to that Jaymee, if she’s not the culprit.“
“…..If she’s not the culprit.” So, she still doubting me?
C’mon, people who knows me knows I like to take pictures of MYSELF and people around, especially my Chou Chou and post it in Facebook. Why would I want to create an account and post ONLY YOUR pictures? In case you think I’m lying or what, you can always check out my Facebook even though it’s private. So even, you still can see MY FACE and my adorable Chou Chou.
Lastly, I would like to thank all my friends and family members who stand up for me and speak for me. Really appreciated that. I tried emailing her, and she doesn’t reply me.
Whatever it is, I have made a police report on this matter (I have a HARD copy of what you wrote about me handed to the police). And I can pursue this matter to the court, so don’t step on my tail.
I just wanna update, but it will take a while for me to update because I have so many things to update.
Last Friday, me, uncle Jeremy and auntie Amy went to catch Jay Chou’s The Era concert 2010. It’s really good, with all the effects and all. Must have put in so much effort on this. To celebrate his 10th year for his entire singing career, and of course more to come. And of course I will delicate one of the post just to update on the concert (posting of pictures and videos), but that will not be today.
Chou Chou enjoyed herself too! And it’s really crowded with lots of people!
The queue for the merchandise was crazy. Nevertheless, I got my Jay Chou’s pink cap (pre-order), sports towel and the pink bag ( which Dearest calls it a grocery bag), which Dearest helped me to purchase after the concert.
Saturday, I had my 2nd paper for the term and it’s a start for the next term. Human Resource Management paper seems easier. But I’m not pinning high hopes on getting high grades for my papers. After the exams, I went to meet up with my lovely sec sch mates. I love to go out with this crazy people, drink and crap the whole night. After that we went to Mustafa because Jo needs to get some things there. I went home earlier because I need to get my laundry done before I sleep.
Last Sunday, our parents finally met up. Which is a good start because if the parents are having different views, it would have been obvious from the first meeting. Lucky, everything went smoothly. And the dinner itself costed $230. Wow. But it’s worth while. Alyssa is really cute, she kept following Dearest‘s father around from outside the bedroom to the kitchen. I think she likes him, because she even show off her nice little dress to him. Hahaha. Such a cutesy little girl, a naughty one too. It’s really fun to watch her playing slide in the playground. Ah, childhood. And also, we met up with our wedding coordinator. I would need some help from my friends, ANYONE??
Tuesday, Jian Hui came back from Taiwan!! And he got me a new STITCH! Yea, it’s adding to my stitch collection. And this new stitch is holding on to a chou chou, but that chou chou is really damn chou (ugly) lah.
But it’s cute isn’t it? Now Chou Chou has got a new friend! Hahaha.
Last night, Metro was having 20% store wide sale! So me, Darling and Dearest went there to take a look. So I ended up with Ettusai’s moisturiser (which I think it’s really good to use this as a mask when my face is a little dry), puff (which cost $11, so freaking expensive!!), and Dior’s loose powder. I super like the Dior’s loose powder because after applying it, my face doesn’t feels oily at all (even after a long day outside!). Love it to bits, but it’s expensive ($73, but.. it’s DIOR leh.) lah. Dearest say I have been spending a lot this month, I promise I will control my spending from next months onwards. After getting so much supply for my skin care, I think it’s time to stop buying for awhile. Hahaha.
It’s raining so heavily in the morning. Lucky for me, I reached the office before it starts raining.
Today it’s just me and Chou Chou at the reception because my partner is on leave today.
I think I am falling sick soon. Throat itchiness and itch nose is a sign of sore throat and flu. I quicky pop strepsils before it gets worsen.
“Rain rain go away, come again another day
Little children want to play“
Oh yes, I’m going to watch the Sorcerer’s Apprentice with my Happy Family tonight. Timing: 00:15
Venue: The Grand Cathay
And we shall all come to work in a sleepy mode tomorrow.
Let’s pray that there will be no flood today. *keeping my fingers crossed* I think, it’s inevitable.
Government should slam SMRT with heavier fines for their incompetance these days. Train break down at Tanah Merah because the metal bar hits on the track that cause the train to stop functioning. Lag time for so long causing us to be late for work. The crowded trains also prevented us from entering the train. PLEASE don’t advise us to leave our house EARLIER, because we cannot predict when will the train break down or many trains we have to miss in order to get into the next one.
I know the CEO of SMRT doesn’t take train to work, but government increase COE to encourage US to take public transport, as a public transport provider, shouldn’t you do some thing to increase your productivity? First, you don’t notice the graffitis on your train, now you say we as commuters chose not to enter the train during the peak hours. And all these are bullshits. Picture speaks louder than words. You don’t know our agony until you try to take train from the far end of east and west. You can try for a month, see you can tahan or not. B.H.
Finally went to the church after a few weeks of absents (doing my assignments). First, we are overwhelmed by the numbers of youths we saw at the service. And then they announced it’s YOUTH DAY! And YOUTH is between 13 – 29 years old. I am still a youth. FOREVER YOUNG.
Alright, craps aside. And this month, it is coincide with racial harmony day. Everyone of us was given an orange ribbon to put on, reminding us about racial harmony. Racial harmony doesn’t come without price ok? Start treating other race well.
Yesterday’s message is about “Parenting with Grace“. It was a sermon by Pastor Prince a few years ago. Initially, I thought this sermon has got nothing to do with me, because I am not in the parenting stage yet. While listening to the sermon, I felt that this doesn’t applies only to parent-to-be, it can be applied on any one. Yes, I mean ANY ONE. Whether it’s young or old, man or woman, malay, chinese or indian. it’s regardless of age, races and sex.
The main topic is, listening with grace. Pastor is right. It never came across to us that we might hurt that someone with the things that comes out from our mouth directly. Whether with intention or not.
Listening with grace means to feel how the person feel.
Pastor Prince gave a few examples using his daughter.
Jessica (Pastor Prince’s daughter): Daddy, I feel so angry!
Daddy: Jessica! You shouldn’t feel angry! You are God’s child, you should forgive and forget.
Many a times, we come straight into the point without realizing that the little children wants their feelings to be acknowledged by the adult. Whenever we said things like that, the children stopped talking, because
they felt that we don’t understand how they feel.
So, if you listen with grace,
Jessica: Daddy, I feel so angry!
Daddy: Oh boy, my dear, you do sound so angry. Tell me what happen or who made you angry?
Jessica: (telling the dad what happened)
It’s a totally different feel. This makes the daughter wants to talk to the daddy.
See, different feelings right? The first one stops you from talking to the person, the second one keeps you talking to the person.
Talking to Dearest is really frustrating. Rather, talking to guys frustrates me.
I was reminding him to TAILOR his shirt since he has been talking about donkey years that he wants to tailor one and since our ROM date is getting nearer and nearer each day. He thinks I am rushing him to tailor. Then he said, “it’s not necessary for me to TAILOR the shirt, I can just buy off RACK as well”. FINE. Who was the one who went into Zara all the times and look at the same shirt saying the same thing? Not me ok? He always say TAILOR shirt will be cheaper than going to Zara and buy. He said he likes Zara, but it’s a little expensive. Damnit. Can you buy a branded that’s cheap and still got quality? I say it’s just too hard to please him.
Next, I was talking about the Gelare ice cream waffle which I had not eaten for ages. Read again, I say GELARE. You know what he told me? He said: “Like this huh? You can go opposite Tiong Bahru Plaza bread shop and buy a waffle and eat.”. This leaves me totally speechless. Seriously.
a) you can just listen to it.
b) suggest to have some ice cream there
c) think again before speaking
He did none of the above. And I am not even talking about OTHER WAFFLES. I am talking about GELARE ICE CREAM WAFFLE. He can tell me to go TIONG BAHRU and buy when we were at SUNTEC. Really fuck up.
What makes the whole conversation even worse was,
No people, you didn’t read wrongly. HE told me this! He walked past Giodano, and saw that the Bermudas are on sale (U.P for one is $39, but if you buy min 2 pcs it’s $33), he asked if he should buy. So I told him “if you don’t buy today, you would buy it someday… so why not buy it today?” Then he say, why am I always rushing him to do something. I feel something for myself. I empathize myself for being in such situation whenever I am just reminding him. Then he says, whatever he says, it’s not necessary for him to execute it. What does he mean by SHOPPING NEEDS PLANNING huh? Do you understand? I don’t. He used buying a car (vs buying Bermudas) as an example. C’mon lah, how much is one car? And how much can a bermudas cost? Bloody hell. It just makes my blood boils.
And then I told him about the B.C (Bonitochico) warehouse sale, and I want to do. He didn’t reply me on this. So when I say I want to shop for some clothes because I don’t know what I should wear for Martin’s wedding. He say just get something and wear will do. I say I wanna look chio chio (pretty) that night, then he say I am not even the bride so chio (pretty) for what? Wanting to be chio (pretty) doesn’t mean I can only pretty during my OWN wedding, it’s woman’s nature wanting to look chio (pretty). And I feel super sian after that.
We went to attend Marriage Seminar on Saturday. I think it’s pretty good because it gives you a rough idea what you will be getting in marriage. Sometimes when I had such conversation with Dearest, I seriously felt that I cannot converse with him at all. And sometimes, the things he said really hurts me.
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I was talking about GERMANY and ARGENTINA PLAYERS during lunch time. I commented that the Germans looks like giant and the Argentina’s player looks so short beside them. G.K says, Argentina players are taller than ME and they are consider tall compared to asians. Germans are like at least 1.9m tall. Ok, since when I am in the picture? So he say, “Ok, I don’t want to argue with you”. But the thing is, I am not talking about ME, GERMANY AND ARGENTINA. I am talking about GERMANY and ARGENTINA. Why am I in the picture?
World Cup. Saturday match:
Germany won! It’s really a good game.
Spain.. do you think they can get into FINALS?
I don’t know what’s wrong with me lately. I snapped at people so easily, especially at Dearest. Somehow I find it really frustrating to communicate with people these days. And I have no idea why.
Anyways, I was quite upset because I couldn’t take a half day leave next week to meet up with the pastor with regards to our ROM because the whole department will be having the meeting on the 15th June, 16th June and our own counter meeting on the 18th June. So the next earliest possible date would be next month because I couldn’t meet pastor on the 22nd June also. So, what I am looking forward now is the trip to Universal Studios with my “happy family”, and my annual meet up with Yi Hui on the same day! My annual meet up with Yi Hui was planned last year! We had agreed on going to Universal Studios together and try all the interesting rides!
Next month is gonna be hell for me. My Saturdays are packed with work (10th Jul), workshops (17th Jul and 31st Jul), seminar (3rd Jul), and exams (Econs on the 17th Jul, HRM on the 24th Jul). And TP test is near. I need more practice. So I will need to spend more time and money to practice more because I want to pass at ONE try. I know everyone will tell me it’s hard blah blah… BUT, I refused to listen to this negative comments.
The next thing to look forward to is the Melaka trip in Aug. It’s back on now.
Maybe, I will just post some random pictures here. Be random is a good thing.
This picture was taken when I went out with my colleague. Chou Chou wants to say ‘HI’ to Uncle Jeremy. 😉
I was trying to be artistic while Kerine was taking photos of the model.
My FIRST Longchamp bag from Paris! Yes, literally from Paris. 😉 A gift from Vivian (Dear‘s younger sister). OMG. She’s finally back from the 3 weeks Europe trip. 🙂
Is there any trips that I can look forward to? I wanna take PLANE! I missed having holidays. With so many things on hand now, I think I need to put holiday aside first and study hard. 😦
3 assignments not done yet. Deadline: 21st June for Econs, 28th June for HRM and Managment Research Project. I’m so dead this time. *bang*
Who in the world say that women is the pettiest mankind on earth? I tell YOU ARE WRONG!
There is no right nor wrong in this context.
I have to blame on myself thinking that that person would help me do a proper website. It’s not a lot to ask for actually, I just ask for a change in the layout of the website because it’s really ugly and not really what I wanted. Then he say, “pay money to me to change the whole layout or buy the template I help you install.. but I will NOT change any of the layout because it’s a lot of work to do”. Then he say, “when I say it’s a lot of work, it means really a lot.” Understand. So, I say it’s ok, then I will think of another alternative since he’s refusing to help me change the layout. Nothing wrong right? After all, I am trying to put 100% effort to make sure everything goes well. Nothing wrong again right?
Listen to my heart beat 