It’s terrible during the weekends! And if you know what?

First, I discover a super BIG blue black on the left side my hip on a Saturday afternoon, and of course, it doesn’t feel a thing else, I would have discover about it sooner and not when I was having my shower. And it’s SO BIG until I was so shocked, and I am not being exaggerate ok? =P

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Putting the super BIG blue black aside, since there was an issue the night before.. So Alan came to Dearest‘s house to have a talk with him. And I have no choice but to stay put at home and continue watching my TW drama. I strongly believe that if there is an issue to be resolve, then they should resolve ASAP and till the issue becomes irreversible, then it would be too late. But it’s because Alan came around dinner time, so I became a little impatient because I have not taken my breakfast and lunch. And by the time Dearest came back from his “Man’s Talk”, it was already 7p.m and he was actually hurrying me. *Angry*

I know what’s making Alan unhappy. Imagine, you have a close friend. And that ‘close friend’ of yours doesn’t take initiative to call you, sms you or MSN you. And you are always making the first move to initiate meet ups, called to check if he/she is doing fine etc. I would be tired, and sometimes disappointed because it feels like my ‘close friend’ doesn’t care (or give a damn). Dearest is the kind of person whereby most of the time it’s his friends who looked/called him and not the other way round. Because he has been living in his comforty world for so long, he has forgotten about taking initiatives. I know he doesn’t mean to hurt his friends in any way, but if I am just his close friends, I would be disappointed as well. Imagine, my bf doesn’t call me and usually I am the one calling him; most of the time. Disappointment comes in, and everyone just speculate about his sudden disappearance ever since he’s got a gf (yea, that’s me). No, I did not stop him from meeting his friends every week, but rather, I have my own circle of friends whom I would like to hang out with during the weekends as well, so if he wants to meet up his friends, he may go ahead because I am not stopping him. And sometimes, late nights are draining the energy out of me. It’s really tiring, and frustrating to have the urge to lie on my bed and sleep BUT, I can’t do that because I am still outside. I am not complaining of course, because I am willing to compromise for Dearest‘s sake. So hopefully everything works out.

Anyways, we went to City Plaza to take a look at the things available there, and to our dismay, nothing much. It’s either the designs are too old or the shop are too packed with things that’s making our head spinning. Whatever it is, we might or might not take our goods from that place. After that, we head back home to take medicine because my headache came back! And it’s really so pain.

What scares me is, this is what I looked like after taking the Nurofen. So scary right? I kept telling Dearest that I can barely recognise myself. =[

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So we have spent the whole Sunday afternoon till night time watching the DVD we rented previously. =]

This year is going to be an exciting year. Why did I say so? I am gonna remain mysterious for awhile, and while everything is on-going (at the planning stage), it’s not really convenient to reveal too much details. Watch out for good news! (no, I am not getting married! HAHAHA)

I am so unhappy with Jetstar! Because they are going to delay my flight from Singapore to Macau, so the estimated time to arrive at Macau would be around 7p.m, and by the time we check in the hotel we booked, it would be almost 8pm! And the reasons that they gave us was, to accomodate a competitive rate, that’s why they have to change the timing. I am like WTFish! This is so not very good! I hate flights that delay. Which means I would have wasted the WHOLE day doing nothing! Horrible.

This is gonna be a very busy week for me! First, I am going to meet my Darling for the first time in 2010! Hahaha. And tomorrow, I m going to Kaplan for course Preview by UCD, Marketing, with Jesslin and Dearest. And Friday, I am just gonna slack at Dearest‘s house watching the DVD we bought the other day at Mustafa. Saturday will be celebrating Peili’s birthday. And last but not least, Sunday will be heading to Michelle’s house for Lucus’s first month! How exciting! In less than 22 days, I am leaving Singapore! Woohooooo!!

I was reflecting myself for the past year and what have I done, and once again, I have accomplish nothing. Not that I am incompetent, but this is where laziness steps in. Ok, I know it’s just a crap full of excuses. I have yet list down my New Year Resolution for 2010. And this year, I only have 3 simple wish (no more hoping, yearning for LoVe) and they are:

1) To get my driving license
2) Get started on my degree program
3) GAIN WEIGHT!

I know the above 3 has been in my N.Y Resolution list for ages and it’s appearing every year! Ok, I have promised myself that I will get these things done pretty soon. I will get my butt into BBDC after I come back from Macau (yea, no choice.. because I am going to spend all my bonus for the trip. So it’s being used wisely), then I am going for the course preview talk with Jesslin this Thursday (7th Jan 10) at Kaplan. It’s gonna be an exciting year, or at least I thought it would be.

Let me recall what I have done for the super long weekend.

26th December 2009
(Amy & Alicia‘s birthday)

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Met up with the girls and the respective partners to celebrate Amy and Alicia’s birthday. Was supposed to meet the girls at Holland Village at 6p.m, I woke up late (LATE LATE LATE, I know~) and plus I need to iron my clothes, thus we were late. Meeting up with my girlfriends has been the very thing I am looking forward to! I love to chill and chat with them. I wondered what will we become in the next 10, 20, 30, 40 years later. We ordered the christmas set dinner, and it turns out…. (*secret*). Nonetheless, we had so much fun taking pictures!

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After chilling out at the Coffee Bean, me and Dearest head back home. What a tiring night! Slept early because we are heading to church the very next day!

27th December 2009

Went to church with Dearest and co. Gavin and Erica joined us for the service. God’s work. Amen! After that, Dearest and me went to MOF for dinner because I do not want to have si chun food for dinner. And somehow, I regreted going because it’s really expensive! = And after that, we went Starbucks to chill and wait for Gavin and Erica to join us. Dearest and me went off around 10plus because it would be very late for Dearest to head home. And I must admit that I wasn’t very too happy with Dearest kept popping his head to see what I am chatting with my friend. If there is a need for him to know, he can always ask me. It’s really rude to keep reading people’s msges without their acknowledgement. Another thing that I don’t like is, he always hold and took my phone away because he wants to play without asking me. And when I say cannot, he will say I am ‘gei gao (petty)’. And when I say him, he would say “now you want to play “please” liao huh?”. I thought it’s supposed to be basic courtesy that you ASK before you TAKE because that something doesn’t belong to you and it’s really RUDE to take it from someone’s hand without the person’s agreement. You see, that’s the thing about certain someone. Taking things for granted. Which should never happen. There is no secret to be hidden away from him, but I do expect him to RESPECT my privacy space.

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30th December 2009

Last working day of the year! Nothing special. Went to have dinner at Lavender and then we went to Mustafa for a walk. And this walk cost us almost $80. Haha, after that we walked back to Lavender to take a bus home. And that’s a long walk too.

31st December 2009
(The last day of 2009)

Clear my time off, so I don’t have to work for that day. Hooray! So I went over to Dearest‘s home for ‘Chalet”. Sometimes, I think memory is falling me. I have to think really hard to remember the events that had happen. Gosh! Alright, this time I remembered that I went to Kallang Leisure Park for a movie, Sherlock Holmes, with Dearest. Because that’s one of the movies I am looking for to. This is so exciting! Because there will be a Sherlock Holmes 2 soon (that’s my OWN conclusion). I love witty guys you know. =] After that, we went to have our dinner and head down to Esplanade to catch the fireworks at Marina Bay.

This reminds me of 2008 NYE – 2009. That very day, I head down with the ex-bf and friends to catch the beautiful fireworks to welcome the New Year and a few days later, we ended the relationship. No commitments. I tried to put up a strong front to show everyone that I do not care anymore, but I, ended up, crying for an hour at the playground next to my block. Cried till my lungs almost came out, but lucky for me, there is always someone out there to look for me. So much events happening. And sometimes, I wished that happy moment could just freeze in the year 2007 where we were once so happy and in love. But then again, time told me I HAVE TO MOVE ON. Which, slowly, I did. I thought the next guy that appears in my life, who’s always there to look out for me, would be the perfect guy in life. But as time passed, many people came into my life. Here comes Dearest. It was definitely filled with uncertainities. The moment when he told me that he likes me, I thought it was a joke. But it feels so real, because of his actions. But then again.. his actions are rather cold and hot at times. He gave me the bo chap attitude. I started to wonder. I don’t know if he’s the guy God has planned for me. Before he came into my life, I would think that the person will always be that ex-bf. Sometimes, the things that he once told me, demoralized me alot. I guess this is the growing up process.

After fireworks, we walked from Cityhall to Bugis to catch the last bus home. But alas, the last bus was crowded with people so we decided to take the train (since the train service is till 2a.m) home. We walked for almost an hour from Cityhall to Bugis, I guess this is the longest walk we had ever walked. So, Gavin met us for some coffee session along with Tyler. Just when I thought I could go home early to watch the DVDs that we bought at Mustafa. Sigh. So by the time, we reached home and shower, I have to head to bed. Wasted. I wondered when we can actually start on watching the movies.

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1st January 2010
1st day of New Year

Woke up earlier so I could head back home since I have not gone home for 2 days. Haha. After crapping with my family, me and Dearest head to Shenton Way Partyworld for a singing session with Gavin & Co. Alan‘s car was down so they have to take a cab home. And after that we head back home and by then, I am already very tired.

2nd January 2010

We wanted to go Hougang Mall for a walk, but because I was so tried until I couldn’t wake up early and by the time we are done. It’s time to meet Gavin & co for dinner. Some times, does it comes to your mind that how much time in a year you have used to wait for people? I think I spent 1/3 of my time waiting for people. Knowing that Gavin will not be early, so we were late for about 15 minutes, who knows… he was 15 + 30 minutes later. Not much patience because a hungry man is an angry man. Hahaha. We head to Thomson Road for steamboat. And don’t ask me for pictures, because I was too engross in eating. Hahaha. After that, we head to some hotel to chill and lim kopi again. It’s the weekly routine. Somehow, I felt that I am unable to switch their frequency and laugh at their jokesAfter that, we head home and by the time we reached home, I am stoning already.

3rd January 2010

It’s time to have steamboat with my family again! Haha. I love to eat steamboat at home where everyone is so busy joking around and make fun of each other. Of course we must have the mahjong routine. What’s steamboat without mahjong? LOLs. Anyways, I LOSE. I will win back the next time round. They are just luckier than I am. Ah, it’s time to finish writing this entry because it seems like I have been typing for ages already, fingers are aching already! Hahaha. Stay tune folks! And, really can’t wait for Michelle’s Lucus’s 1st Month. How time FLIES. =]

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Concentrating on eating. =P

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FIGHT with REMI! WAHAHAHA~

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Last but not least, the singing session that I am yearning for! =]

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We sang till about 1.30a.m before heading home and then I overslept for work next morning! In my hurry, I smsed the WRONG LAWRENCE! OH GOSH! That’s embarrassing! No wonder my manager didn’t reply my msg. But it’s alright because it’s just Christmas brunch in the office (this time with the BIG BOSS!). HAHA. After the Christmas brunch, we head back home to catch some nap (because I AM REALLY TIRED!), then at night, me and Dearest went to Katong to have dinner. After dinner, we went to Kallang Leisure Park for movie, Alvin and the Chipmunks! And the chipmunks is really cute! After movie, we went to meet Gavin & co because they were there too. They suggested singing, but the charges at KBox is really freaking expensive! And this is really DISGUSTING can? On public holiday eve, they charge us $38++. =.=”’

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Ok lah, I shall update till Christmas Eve and I shall continue blogging tomorrow! You know, I have taken so much pictures and it’s really taking so much time to do so little editing! Hahaha~ I shall think about my New Year Resolution for the coming year! AND I MUST/WILL STICK WITH IT! ARGH!

Meet up with Elise & co on the 5th Decemeber. We meet up almost once a year due to the busy schedule THEY have. That’s right, it’s THEY who are busy not me. I am free most of the time. And, now? I am busy with my boyfriend. And, I must tell you the food at Pepez (I don’t remember the spelling), taste yucky and I don’t know why the newspaper are featuring them. The kang kong doesn’t taste like kang kong. The only food that’s really nice is the beef and it comes in a bowl of 3 pieces of meat. I was playing around with the Picasa program. And I made a short clip (without music, mayb I will do more when I am less lazy). Hope you enjoy it! =D

After that, dear dear and me went to meet Gavin & Co. We head to the airport to chill and at the same time to welcome Alan & Christine back from Korea~ And after that, we head home. It was so tiring! Gosh.

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We went to Vivo City’s 3rd Anniversary’s firework display on the 2nd December. Was hesistating if I should go because I get off work only after 8pm and I thought the fireworks display is at around 7p.m until Josephine told me it starts at 9p.m! I was thrilled because I love to watch fireworks. How many times a year can you watch beautiful fireworks piah piah piah up in the sky? And this fireworks display is from Korea, and imagine the amount of money Vivo City spent for this event? It’s really cool and not much people and the view of the fireworks is just directly in front of me! What can I ask for? *hugs*

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Hope that you have enjoyed as much as I do. =]

I meant to update my blog last night, but by the time I am done with some collages for the pictures I took since Thursday, it was running late already. Nontheless, I promised myself to update my wonderful birthday treat!

On Thursday (19.11.2009), I went to meet up with Evelyn and Kerine because it’s been a long time since I last met up with them. And of course, since we haven’t meet for such a long while, I felt the distance between us (and of course, Evelyn and Kerine does hang out every other days) because it felt like, I don’t really understand what they are saying or what they are laughing. And by the time dinner was being served was 9plus p.m already! Late isn’t it? Because I was on afternoon shift last week. Nontheless, I had my favorite sashimi and sushi. Dearest came along too! Because I wanna intro my Dearest to my secondary school friends. I know he’s doing his best to be as friendly as possible. Appreciate that. After that we have to head home because it was late already.

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Alright! Now we are talking about a day closer to my birthday (20.11.2009)! I have dated my closed and best friends out. That would be: Alicia, Rebecca, Amy (but she couldn’t make it because she decided to attend her company D&D..), my Elder sister! And of course baby Alyssa came along! My sister commented that the main lead of the day isn’t me, it’s the baby! Haha. Doesn’t matter lah. I am always cam whoring. =]

We went to Suki-Ya @ Marina Square for dinner partly because I know Dearest have cravings for that for the longest time. And, I love shabu shabu! My sister was late because she was held up at work. So after eating for close to 2 hours, we settled the bill and head off. Me and Dearest head back to his house to put our stuffs, slack a little. Persuade him to show me my birthday present. LOL. And I got a red handbag from Kate Spade. Thanks Dearest! After opening up my birthday present, we went to Tiong Bahru to meet up with Gavin and Co for movie, 2012. Which I find it a little boring other than the graphics part. Ok, I was actually thinking.. why would people kept thinking about the end of the world? God will led the way. For He’s the truth and light in my life. =D Hahaha. And and and! I just wanna say it out loud that, I love my friends for coming! Thanks people!

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On the actual day of my birthday (21.112009), we are supposed to go to the toy museum with Alicia. But I woke up slightly later, so I smsed Alicia that I would be late. And then Dearest’s mother asked if we would wanna have some lunch first. So, I thought of grabbing some bites and head off to meet Alicia, but before I could do that Alicia called. So I told her that Dearest was still having his food (because I already finished mine). She sounded angry and told me she wants to head home. I tried to persuade her to wait for a little while, but she insisted on going home. When I called her and SMS her, she didn’t reply at all. I was really scare she will be angry with me for a long time. I promise I will not nuah again. Sorry DARLING! Dearest and me went ahead to go for a walk at city hall because I decided not to go toy museum without Darling. And then I got a call from my lil’ sister that I am supposed to bring my bro to see a doc (which I have informed my elder sister to bring him on my behalf) but because little Alyssa didn’t slept for the whole night.. my sister was unable to help. So I have to head home and bring my brother to bukit butok chinese medicine center. Brought him to Mcdonld’s too. After that, Dearest and me head to Madarin Oriental Hotel for our international buffet! It’s really sweet of him to plan such wonderful event for me. =]

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After dinner, we went to meet Wenjie and Peining (because her birthday is just a day after mine!) at Marine Square and Gavin + Erica came to meet us shortly. After so much consideration, we went to Dempsy Road for a drink while counting down to Peining’s birthday and the end of my birthday! Haha.

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The drinks that makes Peining go GAGA.

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In reel life, when someone is admitted to A&E, the next scene would be the ward they are in; which takes a minute.

In real life, when someone is admitted to A&E, the next scene would be the ward they are in; after a few hours of waiting.

My lil’ sister woke me up today and told me that my ah ma has to be admitted to the hospital (as advised by the doctor in the polyclinic). As per last visit to the hospital, which was on the 15th Nov, her sodium level is low, blood pressure is low and the red blood cell count is low. Thus the doctor in the polyclinic advised her to stay at the hospital till she gets better. But as usual, my ah ma refused to. And after my elder sis’s persuasion, she obliged. You know these days old people can be as stubborn as a bull. So I decided to take half day leave to accompany my Daddy and Ah Ma.

We reached NUH at about 11.50a.m, I helped Ah Ma to do some registration and the nurse pushed her in to do some blood test. The doctor told us the result would be out in about 2 hours time. And at 12.55noon, the nurse called me and told me that they just completed her blood test and what we have to do now is to W A I T. I don’t think we have much options. So I have to call Lawrence at 3p.m when my Ah Ma’s blood test result was still not released. Lawrence told me to take whole day leave today. So I continue to wait till the doctor call me at 3.45p.m about the blood test result. And the last step was to wait for my Ah Ma to be pushed into the a ward. So we have wait for a bed availablity. And my relative say: “Aiyah, no choice one. NUH is really popular.”. Ok, being ‘popular’ is not an excuse for being so slow. So that was another 2 hours before we finally see Ah Ma at her ward. So I was at the hospital since 11.50a.m till 9p.m. Oh well. I have to wait, because she’s my grandmother who watch me grow. So she talked about my boyfriends. She don’t really like the previous boyfriends I had previously, because they were really small build compared to the other guys. And my Ah Ma says, this current boyfriend of mine, is better (boyfriend, you don’t read this liao and start to hao lian hor), but personality else, I have to find out myself. But I have total trust in my Dearest. =]

My cute little niece come to visit Ah Ma as well. And she can speak Pa Pa, Ma Ma.. or something like that. And… she seems to like TOM YUM SOUP. LOL.

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