This week starts really badly. First, I am feeling sick so I went to the doctor and get a MC. Then yesterday during lunch time, I was informed by Celest that someone posted MY PICTURES on her blog. It caught me off guard, and I was really shocked to hear that. So she gave me the link and asked me if I know this person. I view that person’s blog on my iPhone. While I was reading through the blog, I saw my pictures, the one I am holding Magnum Gold ice cream. Slowly, I saw 2 ROM pictures of me and my husby. The last photo I saw was the one with me, Rebecca and Celest.

I ain’t famous people and I seriously think that cyber attack won’t happen to me. But, reading this person’s blog really scares me. And of course, it also tells me how stupid one can be.

The person’s blog is, ALICIA’S BLOG owned by this person named Alicia Tan. Oh please, don’t start asking me do I know this person. I am 100% sure that..

I DON’T KNOW HER AT ALL.

If you are Jaymee Tan, and you read her blog. You will start to feel uneasy, just like me.

Let me get this ‘story’ flowing. In case the screen shots you see here are too small for you to read.

This Alicia Tan was describing how people would photoshop her picture and post it up in sggirls.com and one of the photos that she found out from a friend, happened to have her head ‘doctored’ on a nudity photo. Oh well, some times, you don’t have to be a MODEL in order to have your photos doctored and posted on such websites. Some bored people just likes to do such things.

And then the best part of her blog was, she was informed by another friend of hers, Sam, that someone was using her photo while HE WAS CHATTING WITH HER THROUGH MSN. And since her friend, Sam, knew that the person he’s speaking to is NOT her so he decides to inform her. And this “Jaymee Tan” replied her friend, Sam, by saying “It’s better not to disclose my real identity online“. So how the hell did Alicia Tan managed to google and found ‘Jaymee Tan’ blog*** (the blog was actually referring to MY poor blog)? And is 100% sure that it is the correct impersonator that she is looking for? And since her friend knows who is impersonating her, why didn’t they report to the authority? So that they can take action against her or something instead of posting up such a blog entry 3 months later.

***It doesn’t make any sense if someone impersonate her in Facebook, but creates a blog and post her REAL photos.

A few months later on a Saturday(or so what she claims), some friends of her asked her if this was her ‘sister’, ‘herself’ or a ‘faker’. Apparently this “Jaymee Tan’ bo liao TTM, she created a Facebook account, uploaded this Alicia Tan’s pictures and maybe to the certain extend stalked on her in her blog (since Alicia Tan claimed that she doesn’t update her Facebook regularly). And behaves as if she’s Alicia Tan.

So, this smart alex googled “Jaymee Tan”, found my blog, save a few of my pictures, spend her time reading my blog and upload MY pictures into HER blog without my permission. And with the intention to insult me as if I was the impersonator. So she commented on my looks.

She even put remark “Shall we add “Bitch” to the list of adjectives to describe her?” (BTW, this beautiful description is in my police report (below)). She was trying to be sympathetic towards how I look.

What I don’t understand was,

WHAT’S WRONG WITH SHARING ACCOMMODATION WITH MY HUSBY FOR A HOLIDAY?

If my husby is stingy, he won’t offer paying for the air tickets. What do you know about my husby? You know nothing about him. So what you claimed you have a handsome boyfriend? I have a loving husby who I can depend on, who loves me from the bottom of his heart. We feels how each other feels. He gives me his attention, always be there for me if possible, always buy me little things to make me happy and with all these little actions from him, I feel so love. He never forgets to give me the hugs and kisses before we sleep. And this is how we love each other. 🙂

Do you know that, by paying for a gf’s accommodation doesn’t not necessary make the bf a good guy. The bf can pay for the gf’s accommodation, brings her to holiday but doesn’t give her his attention, doesn’t give her hugs and kisses very often or even make her feel loved by him. And by sharing accommodation, it doesn’t mean he’s stingy. Both of us are working, so why not? Do you know that he’s giving his riches to me little by little, day by day. What do you know about OUR love? You know nothing, and you commented so much on this. Shame on you.

As a plain Jane, i never think that I have a perfect set of teeth. I know I have crooked sets of teeth. But, who is perfect in this world? Pretty girl with bad temper, proud of themselves, just because they are pretty? And I don’t even want to comment on how you look. Everyone have their eyes to see and be the judge. I know I doesn’t have big boobs, neither am I very pretty (don’t you know what is BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER ?) nor do I study in famous school. I know my ang moh (English) is not that good. At least I won’t anyhow accuse someone of something that one did not do. I have a wide smile, which some people would told me “Jaymee, you have a nice smile”. I DO NOT NEED A SET OF STRAIGHT TEETH to have NICE SMILES. It’s from within. Tell you so much, you also won’t understand.

I was friendly enough, because I don’t see the need to blow this things up, so I dropped her an email to clarify things.

I waited the whole day for her reply. And till now, no reply from her. I was so distress about this matter yesterday because the entry was still there, so I posted on my Facebook. And I got so many supportive friends and family members! I am soooooooooooooooo touched! Really, without everyone’s encouragement I think I will just emo one corner and don’t know what to do. And everyone who knows me personally, will knows I like to,

1) Camwhore with my friends
2) Take pictures of Chou Chou, pets and other soft toys
3) Just bought a DSLR, Canon 60D, last month. This means I can take even more chio pictures and post it on my Facebook and share with everyone so that they can comment on my photography skills so I can improve myself.

My friends can vouch for me. And I really cannot find a reason why I should impersonate her. It’s not like she’s some kind of ‘Superstar” and mind you, I do not even chase after “superstar” neither do I follow their news. Or super talented. WHY SHOULD I IMPERSONATE A 19/20 YEARS OLD LITTLE GIRL? Almost everyone (including my sisters and parents) encouraged me to make a police report against such misuse of my photos and horrible and untruth information about me.

And I did. My little sister and brother accompanied me to the police station. While I was in the police station reporting this case, I was told that she removed my pictures and some comments. So I went to view her post and saw that she removed my pictures. But, I was very disturbed about it because she did not delete the “As usual, I went to google & found her blog… read some of her entries (she’s married!), but didn’t do anything.”

To me, this is NOT AN APOLOGY. That’s for sure. What does she meant by “if she’s not the culprit?” So it means, she is still doubting whether I am the culprit? Even my friends says it’s not an apology. And I totally agree with PeiWei that I am so unlucky to have such things happening to me.

Next, we will analyze on this MSN chat history. We will start from the date. It was dated back in 07.10.2010. So, her friend, Sam, told her about this person since OCT LAST YEAR. If you read this MSN conversation CLOSELY and CLEARLY, apparently this “Jaymee Tan” was a friend of Sam’s friend. Something that I don’t really understand was, WHY DO YOU NEED TO GO TO THE EXTEND OF GOOGLING ‘JAYMEETAN@LIVE.COM’ ONLINE WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A DIRECT CONTACT YOU CAN APPROACH?

Do you know when you typed “jaymeetan@live.com”, they will remove ‘.’ and ‘@’ then it will search based on “jaymeetan’, ‘live’ and ‘com’. And since my name is JAYMEE TAN, of course your search results will see me. So, I can assumed that she has been reading my blog since OCT LAST YEAR? Can I say that she has been stalking on me? And, may I ask WHICH part of my blog did I mentioned about Alicia Tan or Sam or going clubbing with him and his friends? Everyone knows I am busying with my assignments and exams. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO busy until now that I can fork out some time to write about this whole stupid matter that is affecting ME, MY HUSBY and my FRIENDS. I think anyone who has eyes to see, knows that it’s impossible that I am the one impersonating you. I am not so sure if she has opened her eyes big enough to see when she’s searching on “Jaymee Tan”. So QUIT acting smart will ya? What makes you think you are a good investigator? Sorry, but you are nowhere near.

And I think she hasn’t been reading news lately. All of us know about “Gary Ng” and his 507 sex videos adventure that was exposed last year. Guess what? His real name is Chen Guilin. So in what way was “Gary Ng” linked to Chen Guilin? Or does it comes into anyone’s mind that “Gary Ng” = “Chen Guilin”? Can I google “Gary Ng” and accuse any “Gary Ng” who I came across and say he’s the Singapore version of “Edison Chen”? BTW, I have 2 Gary Ng in my Facebook. (I am sorry if I used you guys as an example. It meant no harm!) Can I just assumed that any “Gary Ng” I come across is him if the media did not expose his pictures? No what? The media will have to do a thorough investigation and make sure they got the correct “Gary Ng” and expose him and his evil deeds. This is common sense. If you want to catch a thief, you must first have evidence. You have NO evidence and then you accused me of being the impersonator? Holy molly! Do you know that people with evil intention does NOT USE THEIR REAL NAME? So, do you think that someone who impersonated you will use their real name in the cyber world? If you think once is not enough, then think as MANY as you wish!

Anyways, I was so happy because I have got so many people backing me up on this rubbished post. Little things makes me happy girl. That doesn’t make me stupid or silly. I am just easily contended.

And in order to let you know the SERIOUSNESS of this matter, I have reported to the authority. It has been classified under “Intentional Harassment”. Any funny things from you, I will definitely charge you. Just in case you are living in your OWN WORLD, I have hard copy of the blog post (before it was amended) handed to the police.

In case you don’t know, to me ALL OF MY FRIENDS ARE HANDSOME AND PRETTY (HUNKS AND BABEs). Do not judge a book by its cover, otherwise the person who will fall terribly WILL BE YOU.

Last but not least, it seems like you did this to quite a bit of people. And mind you, if you step on my tail again, I will report you to YOUR SCHOOL. It’s not a threaten. Remember.

And seriously, I have nothing against you if you have not dragged me in and make me someone’s scapegoat. But, technology outsmart you.

Showing everyone my Facebook! I have Facebook since when? Poly days? So, stop living in your own world as if I die die must ‘impersonate’ you. Do you think that I impersonate you or my Chou Chou did? I love my FRIENDS and FAMILY. But, you don’t deserve any attention from us anymore. I wish I could say the B word. But, I aint like you! 😀